Use of 3R in Human Life

Hi everyone,

I believed that mostly people will know what is 3R.

3R means Reuse, Reduce and Recycle. 

Does everyone know that actually we can use 3R to gain better relationships with others in our lives?

In my point of view, 3R is related to human skills. It helps everyone to be a better person on how to communicate and have a good relationship with others. However, today I would like to focus more on university life as students need to build relationship with each others especially with the group mates.

In a human life, many things happened in positively or negatively and it depends on a person perspective to behave and make decision.

I've experienced before that a friend of mine made a mistake with his negative attitude which quite irritated me. I actually have the right to show my unpleasant feeling, but at last, I chose to forgive. I decided to give a chance, instead of blaming my friend. Just like what "Reuse" stands for, though a thing is not useful anymore or having some flaws we can still take it and make use of it in other effective ways. 

The forgiveness I gave decreased conflict yet created a better relationship. This similar to the meaning of "Reduce", when we remove the unnecessary or unwanted things which may effect in our life, life can become more harmony and peaceful. 

The best thing that I can see is my friend eliminated the negative behavior and our relationship fixed and improved. This as a "Recycle" process, everything need some upgrade so it will become a good thing. Its better to be the one who forgive someone rather than to hate someone.


Thank you.

The Kite of Life

Dear readers,

Do you know that a KITE is actually an AIRCRAFT ?

Yokaichi Giant Kite Festival is held every May in Higashiomi Shiga, Japan.

 A Kite is consisting of one or more wings tethered to an anchor system. The necessary lift that sustains the kite is generated when air flows above the kite's surface, producing low pressure above and high pressure below the wing. Therefore, flying a kite is actually depends on the wind. 

I have been keep thinking deeply whenever I plays kite. Through this, I learned a lot of being a good person and it impact my life.

Kite is just like our Life.

Without the wind, kite is just nothing. 

We can't force the kite to fly by just running hard to create the manual air pressure for the kite.

At the end, it will fall down to the ground.

This can be relate that "Everything in our life, we should not force ourselves or other people to do anything we wanted." It makes me to be not selfish and think about others first, stand in their shoes and knowing how others feel when they being force to do something that they are not willing to do.

Besides that, I noticed the string that tethered with kite will have high percentage that it will snap if keep pulling the string only. So, flying a kite is not just pulling the string but also to release it so that the kite can balance itself and will maintain flying in the sky.

This same goes to our relationships in life, when arguments occurred, it is best to tolerate with others and try not to argue as it might break the bond of relationships.

Fast or Slow, It doesn't matter

Today topic is about "Driving".

Hi drivers,

First of all, there are questions I would like to ask.
Is it really matter if you drive fast or slow on the road ?
Will it be dangerous for you and other people when you drive fast ?

It is because...

As I can see nowadays, many people like to drive fast especially youngsters... How fast is it consider fast for them ? 120km/h ? 140km/h ? or 160km/h++ ?!!! 

Why not be a slow driver and drive safe to prevent or avoid accident on the road ? 
Why not think about the people who love and care about you ? 

"It's better to be late, than to arrive ugly."

What is fast and what is slow ?

By the way, I am very happy and appreciated to received a gift from someone that always remind me to drive safe on the road. It is a DIY dream catcher that "live" in my car now. Therefore, it is good to drive slower and safe; not only because of my family or friends but for my own self.

Dream Catcher : Drive Safe !

"Life is only given once by God, appreciate and use it wisely."

Thank you & Drive Safe !

EARTH without ART is EH

Hi ladies and gentleman,

What do you know about "EARTH without ART is EH" ? It's something really amazing right ? This is how we play with the alphabets. EH means there is nothing if EARTH without the alphabets of A,R and T in the middle.

Let us look deeper to the phrase "EARTH without ART is EH". Ask yourself and think what can you relate by using this phrase. Think carefully and you will definitely able to link it to something that you care.

From my brain, the phrase "EARTH without ART is EH" quickly remind me of my family. Firstly, I have my dad, my mom, and two brothers; included myself will be total of five members in my family which I could relate it with the five alphabets, "EARTH". Without my mom and my dad, there will be no ART (3 "useless" kids).

Besides that, the word "EARTH" means a family for me. Without one of the alphabets, it is not consider a perfect family. There are many memorable moments that I spend my time with my family and I really appreciated to have them in my life.

There is a song which I love to hear and reminded me of my love one. It is "You Raise Me Up" by Westlife. There is a part of the lyrics really touched my heart and somehow it express my feeling of love towards my family.

Part of the lyrics that I mentioned:

"You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;

You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;

I am strong, when I am on your shoulders; 

You raise me up... To more than I can be."

They raised me up, to be who I am right now. A family is worth more than gold, spend more time with them especially our parents. They will feel happy with you by their side because your presence is the best gift for them. Thank you and I hope you all enjoy the "EARTH".

Messages got even more FUN with LINE Stickers !

Hello my friends,

Today, I will share with you all about LINE !

Everyone know that LINE is a new communication app to make FREE calls and messages. However, in my opinion, the most important for LINE is their Stickers !!!

Why Stickers ?!! 

LINE Stickers play an important role as the stickers could express users' feelings. This could help users to communication even better with their family, friends and lover.

Nowadays, people love to use Smartphone for FREE app to communicate because it is convenient to everyone, but let us imagine that if there is no more this kind of app that could show our expression although there is no face to face communication ? Don't you think that the conversation will become very dull ?

Below are some examples of LINE stickers and the characters' name.

 Selfie - James

Praying - Moon 

Sudden appeared - Cony

Making Brownie - Brown 

I would like to say that LINE more, can make a relationship become closer especially with those cute stickers that can express our feelings. You may think that it is not true about what I mentioned, but I feel it happened on me because my relationship with my "crush" is getting better now. I even received a special Christmas present from her last year, 2014. The DIY LINE Bookmarks.

LINE Bookmarks

For those who are still single, you may try to use LINE more to communicate with your "targeted" female/male friend. It's just my suggestion for you but let us pray for the outcome together and good luck. Lastly, LINE gave me happiness and I wish it will bring happiness to all of you as well.

I Love Him but I'm not Gay !

Hello readers, welcome to my blog !

This is my first time created a blog for myself and I would like to take this opportunity to share my feelings toward anything in my LIFE.

For today, I would like to share about "Good Friend" and how I will describe a good friend?

You may think that my good friend is a person who will :-

• accompany me anytime, 
• listen to what I say for hours,
• don't mind spending money on me,
• face problems together with me,
• and many more.

However, the most important thing that a "Good Friend" should have is to be able to make you become yourself and will accept who you are.

My story start here...

In my university life when I entered foundation, I met a person who "slightly retarded" just like me that greet each other "Good morning, Hello, Hi, and Bye" ONLY ! It have been a long time that both of us just greet each other especially when we meet in the gents (toilet). But, god gave me a chance to communicate more with him when we entered in a same group for group assignment. Besides that, we even took the same degree course and this make our relationship more closer. And and.. guess what.. he is also "fresh/weak" in Mandarin language. Mostly people will call us as "Banana" because we are not in Chinese educated and do not know how to read or write in Chinese words although both of us are Chinese.

He is a good friend of mine now that know my real attitude which is "a kid that will never grow up". It means that i'm playful and love to jokes around and I believed that he is just the same as me.

The way we interact, act stupid faces, and sing together are most memorable. We laughs and enjoyed together every time like no other business. 

Below are the pictures we took together during the first year of degree.

                     Trimester 1

 Trimester 2

                                                                                          Trimester 3

Other than that, I choose to share about my "Good Friend" today is because George is the person who taught me how to create a blog. I would like to say thank you and appreciated him to be one of my friend. Last but not least, my message to readers will be "spend more time and enjoy the moments with your love one, do not regret when there is no more chance to be with them". Thank you.

-A special gift to my friend-

George is Wai Jun.

He lives in jungle for 20 years.

He love to eat watermelon and ostrich's eggs.

He has a pair of little, cute, small, and soft ears.

THE END